For the moments you want to reach out
A little space for what you’re feeling.
Write the message you don’t need to send. Find your feet. Keep one small thing for yourself.
NoSend is a private breakup companion, with simple things to try when you want somewhere to land.
Free support. No ads. No account needed to begin.
A moment for you
What would help right now?
You don’t have to explain the whole relationship. Choose an action and take it at your pace.
Put the words somewhere private.
Write an unsent letter. Come back to it, change it, or delete it later. Your letters save on this phone, with previews hidden by default.
Come back to what is here.
A short grounding exercise invites you to notice something you can see, feel, and hear. Go at your own pace, or skip a step.
Keep your own words close.
Save boundaries and reminders in My kit. When a moment feels complicated, read what you wanted to remember.
Choose one small next step.
A glass of water. Moving your phone. Something of your own. Keep a manageable choice for the next few minutes.
Your experience matters
A kit built from your own moments.
After an action, you can say how it felt: about the same, a little easier, helpful, or not for you. You can skip the question too.
My kit keeps a factual record of those answers. When you name a familiar situation, NoSend can bring back the action you previously said helped.
For necessary contact, keep a private plan with the facts, your boundary, and what you will turn to afterwards.
Your words stay yours.
Letters, boundaries, contact plans and personal moment history stay in this phone’s app storage. Signing in does not back them up or upload them.
Previews start hidden. A passcode lock is available. Support works offline, so you can open a moment without waiting for a server.
Read how privacy worksNo perfect record required.
If counting time apart is useful to you, turn on the optional counter. If it isn’t, leave it hidden and use the rest of NoSend.
Contact can begin a new chapter without erasing your letters, earlier history, or the little things you have kept in your room.
Every support tool is free. Optional Pro adds two room colour themes with a one-time purchase.
A few things you might wonder.
- How can NoSend help when I want to text my ex?
- Open a moment and choose what you need: write privately, try grounding, read a boundary, or choose a small next step. You can optionally name what brought you here and rate how the action felt. A two- or ten-minute timer is available if you want it. NoSend does not promise a particular result.
- Is this a no contact tracker?
- You can choose a start date and show a quiet counter in Settings. It is optional. You can use the letters, support actions and kit without a date, a counter, or an account.
- What if we have to talk about something practical?
- My kit includes a private contact worksheet for things such as belongings or shared responsibilities. Note the purpose, necessary facts, your boundary, words you could use, and what comes afterwards. Nothing is sent from NoSend.
- What happens if I contact them?
- If you use the counter, you can record contact and begin a new chapter. Your earlier history, letters, boundaries and keepsakes remain. NoSend does not take anything away from your companion.
- Is NoSend free?
- Every support action, letter, boundary, contact plan, reminder and privacy control is free. Optional NoSend Pro is a one-time purchase for the extra Sage and Dusk room colour themes. There are no ads.
- Where is my private content stored?
- Letters, boundaries, personal context, action feedback, contact plans and chapter history are stored in this phone’s app storage. NoSend does not upload them, analyze your letters, or back up this content to an account. Google sign-in is optional and covers your account and purchases. RevenueCat processes a device identifier for purchase functionality from app startup, including when signed out.
- Does NoSend read my messages or contacts?
- No. NoSend does not request your contacts, read your messages, or block communication in other apps. It is a place you choose to open.
You can start with this moment.
Some words. Something you can notice. One small next step.